Among a lot of other things I have been thinking on having nothing to say to a human being standing near. The feeling of loneliness this can create.
Struck me that Jennifer Freyd had said something on this theme I thought (about things you can’t talk about).
She writes in the chapter “Removing Blinders, Becoming Connected” at page 194 in her book “Betrayal Blindness – The Logic of Forgetting Childhood Abuse”:
“If you are blind to the evidence that your intimate partner is having an affair, you may manage to keep the relationship from ending. But what sort of relationship is it, and what purpose does it serve?”
Having nothing to say to each other, becoming distant because you exclude (or have to hide) important things…
This has nothing directly with me to do.
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